can i forgive him ?
we got in a fight on my birthday and he went to bed without even caring.
Then the next day he showed up at my door, i was still mad so i told him to leave ( you know how girls are) and he actually left. he didnt spend time with me at all on my birthday. I didnt eat til 8 hoping he’d come back and take me out but i always end up disappointed. He did have something planned out for me,but he threw it all away and left me. I cried so much and when I called him ( I HAD to call him , he didn’t call me) he said i needed to apologize and i deserved it he didnt care if it was my birthday, if its my fault, then its my fault. Is he right or wrong? Am i right or wrong? should i try to work it out? HELP?
6 answers by real people - Boyfriend made me cry on my birthday?
Oh, I used to make mine cry too, and observing video clips each and all of the time made me nuts (although thats not why he cried lots). in any case, i might in basic terms clarify to him what youve defined right here. hell, possibly even coach him the particularly positioned up (some issues are problematic in individual, and that i dont supply solid heartfelt apologies the two). So coach him or explainto him you prefer to do issues extra lively i assume? Ak him what he might prefer to do with you in terms of high quality time that isnt action picture observing. whether youre in basic terms gonna have a smoke on a similar time as you pick for a walk or something. in terms of the apology, enable him you recognize it in basic terms got here out incorrect, which you definitely arent optimistic what you stated to make him sense injury.. and in basic terms explainign your motives ought to help (if he can see for sure). Its rather seems to be a mis-verbal substitute for the main section.. chatting with him extra approximately what you like and prefer to do with him might help. Going to the different individual (him) to artwork issues out is often suited in relationships.
Just a lil fight, try to work it out with him. Maybe it will wear off. You are both in the wrong for fighting and should get along fine in a day or so 😀
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He should have cared. That was incredibly cold and distant. You can”t actually do that to someone you love, so reconsider where your relationship is at. You weren’t wrong in feeling that way, at all.
What did you guys get in a fight about?