so there’s this guy and he basically is my best friend. He knows everything about me and i know everything about him. Recently ive been starting to like him and i wanted to tell him but he told me the other day that he sorta likes this other girl. Im happy for him but i dont know what to do….please help
3 answers by real people - i really like my best guy friend but he likes another girl..?
These are rough waters to navigate in, try to figure out if this is a slight infatuation with this girl or like the real deal he likes her. Telling him that you like him might make the friendship awkward, as well as lead to the destruction of it ifs its not a strong enough friendship. Ultimately I’ve always believed that guys and girls can seldom truly be friends because one always develops feelings and such for the person and it either works out or it doesn’t. My advice beyond that would be to slightly hint,or become more flirty with him. If he takes it in a positive way you have a chance, if not then you might be out of luck. There is always plenty of fish in the sea.
And as a girl I believe every girl should know this but read, Why Men Loves Bitches
It works like a charm, best book Ive ever read in terms of dating and men 😛
I know how you feel. I was amazing freinds with this guy who I met on my second day at a new school. We got snowed for 2 weeks because of a blizzard and spent the time texting. eventualy I started to really like him until someone told me had a crush on someone else. I felt terrible but eventually I got over it and so should you. compared to what yu might go through I got it easy. I haven’t known him for long, he stopped talking to me a few months ago when he started hanging out with really popular people, and he isn’t aloud to date and I moved before he could convince his parents to let him. All I’m trying to say is you need to get over him and trust me when you do you’ll feel alot better. I’m not saying to stop being his freind only to remember that he’s your freind and only that. you can’t decide for him who he likes and when talks to you about her support his decisions and be happy when his girlfreind makes him happy.