that was the question I asked before and now I’m just plan sick and it’s time to get revenge. I don’t care about our friendship anymore so I bitched at him, but now, I want to make him feel as bad as I did. How can I do so? Please help me even tho I’m doing something evil, but it’s part of me and I can’t stop now
11 answers by real people - Teaching a leo guy a lesson?
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Destroy his ego.
Personally, I can’t stand Leo men, they drive me crazy, they whine, and when they dont get their way they are big babies, and hold grudges forever.
I dated one once who, once we started dating, turned into a complete psycho, called me all the time, wouldnt let up, was just extremely annoying, and i ignored him and he still wouldn’t stop. finally i broke it off with him and he was sooo horrified and couldn’t understand why (DUH YOUR ANNOYING) but the point is he STILL to this day will not forgive me for shattering his pride and ego.
So just do something to hurt his pride. Big time.
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I saw your first question and I almost answered it. I’m a Scorpio. I had a contact on this site who is a Leo male and he hurt me deeply. We were practically friends. It was heading in that direction and then I guess we got too close because slowly over time he became hostile and rejecting and I finally removed him last week because I didn’t want to be hurt anymore.
I didn’t know Leo males are moody and erratic because I have only known Leo females and they are straight shooters as others have said.
I, of course, blamed myself. But I see now that’s just the way he is. He probably goes through life doing this to people. I think if you just ignore your Leo he will be hurt enough. Despite their pretense at being above it all, if nothing else their tremendous pride must be stung when they finally get what they give. Just move on. He’s not worth it.
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Ah what pleasure in revenge. And this vendetta is so worth it because??? What exactly do you want to accomplish?
(your previous post was really unclear on what really was wrong, as well) From what you wrote, you were the one who made it a friendship issue by asking him that question… and it’s obvious he’s having a breather from you…
But why demolish the guy’s ego when what he said was quite true… even when he’s not fighting with you, what you’re doing right now is plotting to get him back… and for what?
Because he hurt you, how? You’re not heart broken… are you (because it’s understandable if you want revenge because your boyfriend cheated on you) But he’s not even a boyfriend, right?
If you want a really good one… Then become someone he would miss. Someone with substance and back bone…
Plotting behind his back to get revenge for hurting your ego is hardly being someone worth knowing.
And to top it off… you come here and ask people to join in the roll in the muck with you… which would make everyone else guilty of stabbing at someone they don’t know personally…
If what he has done to you is so bad, and so wrong… then go to him and tell him exactly in what way has he hurt your feelings. If it’s still the same that he doesn’t want to remain your friend then fine… take it at face value, and move on.
Giving yourself the excuse of being Scorpio… then acting like it’s something out of your control is not being a worthy friend, to anyone!
You are responsible for all your actions, words and secrets… Whatever you do reflects upon you as a human being… How you act in situations, how you use your judgment and wisdom… how you relate… all of this defines your character as a human being.
If you think for a moment… Maybe what he did, and what happened isn’t really worth all this ruckus!
If you want revenge, then plot it out yourself without making other people responsible… Because at this rate, if you get reprimanded later, you’re going to say: “I don’t know, some person on the internet told me it was a good idea”
If you don’t care about the friendship anymore then walk away… plain and simple. And if you still care, then go about it the proper way and talk it out responsibly.
You’re too young to even understand how far reaching the ripples of Revenge can be…
Finding reasons to hate him and doing things to hurt him is screaming out: I can’t live without you!
If you want to feel really Scorpio.. then deal with it, if the friendship is worth saving, then give it your best shot… If you don’t think it’s worth it, then say goodbye and leave no strings attached…
Getting other people involved is only tainting others with your drama…
But then again, if others are involved, then you can’t be responsible, right? Your excuse would be:
Because everyone else is doing what you’re doing so you don’t have to feel like the odd one out…
and so there’s solace and refuge…
Be a little bit mature and talk with him properly.
Then you’d be a dignified Scorpio.
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This is so Scorpio of you…..but I’m a Libra who had to deal with a certain Leo for awhile and my advice is to do anything that will hurt his ego if you really wanna stick it to him good
For example, embarrassing him in front of his friends would be perfect or even in front of strangers
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ignore him when wants attention or give him a bad complaint becuz he a leo and they love to be adored. im a cancer and dating a leo guy right now. i bug him when i keep on asking him to talk his feelings he will immediately try and change the subject ugh!!!!!!!
Meh.
sting him